You Can Say Too Much Without Even Speaking
No matter what a job candidate might say, using the wrong body language can make them appear disinterested or even deceitful to recruiters. 0 P, s" L5 G( L( t8 O6 l( l' p) g* s
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"It's so important for people to be cognizant of their body language because while their words may be saying one thing, their body language may be saying something else," says Kimberly Bishop, senior partner of Korn Ferry International, a Los Angeles-based retained executive search firm.2 t1 T9 ^* I4 J" K
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Here are some tips on getting your body language right in an interview.
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1. Maintain the right amount of eye contact.
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9 B b: E2 y* rUsing too little or too much eye contact can impact a recruiter's perception of you. If you avoid eye contact after being asked a question, or you look down, it can suggest dishonesty, says David Moyer, president of Moyer, Sherwood Associates, a retained executive search firm in New York.( o# s0 j/ `: y6 N
* A3 S8 M8 d# Y5 S( t4 HMs. Bishop says many candidates look to the right or left of the interviewer or out the windows instead of making eye contact which can indicate disinterest or lack of confidence. To show a recruiter you are interested, alternate looking at their eyes mouth and shoulders, says Martin Yate, author of "Knock 'Em Dead The Ultimate Job Search Guide 2007" and a former headhunter in Savannah, Ga. / [$ @1 N( Y( m' E
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However, be careful not to overdo the eye contact. Some job hunters concentrate on maintaining eye contact too much that they develop a "stalker stare," says Tonya Reiman, a body language expert in Smithtown, N.Y. who works with recruiters and job hunters. 4 [; d" ~, \, M2 X+ b0 J
! U( ]- m% O3 ?"People who don't break from eye contact enough give me the willies," says Mr. Moyer.
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* o8 L5 `0 l. }" @2. Don't fidget. : c: u# ^- `" N, E4 {( x6 Q* a7 f
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Fidgeting is a telltale sign of nerves, and although many recruiters make allowances for nervousness, they will also expect you to handle pressure with ease if you're seeking a high-level job. If you display your nerves too much during an interview, you may be at a disadvantage. "If you can't handle stress in a job interview, how can you handle it in the job?" asks Mr. Yate. & m- W( X9 ?" H1 _
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Aside from displaying your nervousness, fidgeting is annoying and distracting to recruiters. : Q0 w) T% a$ Z
t( b0 l- W8 O! kMs. Martin, who conducts interviews for client companies, remembers a candidate who played with her hair throughout the entire interview. "I wanted to grab her arm and tell her to stop," say Ms. Martin. "I probably didn't hear half of what she was saying because she was annoying me so much."
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) f6 \. i) @8 n5 @2 r/ WAlthough everyone has their own personal fidgets, the key is to control them during interviews so they don't distract your interviewer. To keep yourself from fidgeting, Mr. Yate recommends bringing a prop, such as a pen and pad, to keep your hands occupied.
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Curtis Muldrew, 41, says he learned how to stop twisting and untwisting his pen during interviews by only touching his pen when taking notes. "Interviews are events where I really have to practice because my movements can be distracting to the interviewer," says Mr. Muldrew, chief information officer of HeartScreen America, a large population and direct-to-consumer heart screening services company in Andover, Mass.